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  1. My name is not Mike

    May 16th, 2005

    Fool’s Gold

    An old pal from uni came to visit me this weekend. Although he has yet to really find his direction in life – I find him still contemplating get-rich-quick-property schemes that he was planning in his final year at university. He still pines for bargain properties that he saw on the market and wanted to acquire with the help of a friend’s family income, but couldn’t buy because of university commitments.

    I want to state now that in principle there is nothing wrong with this, it’s just that:

    1. I wish so many of my friends would stop fantasising over buying rundown property and doing it up. Damn Property Ladder!
    2. I wish they planned on doing so through saving up their own earnings, rather than relying on parental deposits

    My current flatmate also rhapsodises about the allure of property, and has combed the internet for all available advice on how to make money. I admire this determination (especially in the second year of a degree), though think the property market is over-simplified and internet schemes can be dubious and over-rated.

    I can think of several friends (all mid to late twenties), who have stretched themselves to buy property and I’d question whether they have been really happy doing so. They don’t have the money to travel, paying the mortgage is always an issue and when financial matters become really serious, they lack the flexibility to move or change, because of the mortgage.

    I get worried about not being able to afford property and it is a significant influence in driving forward a career, but in a year’s time, if I decide to work abroad or save up for a snow-boarding holiday (which I have always wanted to do, but have never been able to afford) – then I will do so. My grandfather, who is 92 years old and very abstemious with money, insists on walking, cycling and bus-ing everywhere to save money. He’s a fighter and I admire that, but he has also out-lived two wives and spends his golden years feeling lonely and worrying about his finances. He could afford to travel first class around the UK and to Europe, but he insists on keeping costs low wherever possible. If he was younger, this philosophy should be admired, but at 92, I am wondering how old he had to be, before he feels he can live a little.

    There are two friends of mine who are taking sabbaticals from their corporate jobs to move to Canada. Whilst they were fortunate to land jobs with a rather apathetic corporate company, they have always been sufficiently energetic to launch summer festivals in their back garden, they both play in different bands; they go to gigs (including Snow Patrol several times) and have been quite clear that although bills need to be paid and savings are useful, the agenda is ‘a good time’. The apathetic corporate employer has given them a certain amount of financial freedom, but whilst the company flounders for a direction, they do not. I am certain that because of this attitude, they will always be successful.

    The two friends above though are exceptional exceptions – many of my friends are still looking for a way to get rich quick, thanks to shows like ‘Location, Location, Location’, Big Brother and The Apprentice etc. Whilst these shows involved originality and hard work, these qualities no longer seem to be fashionable and we dream about becoming rich, without any interest in how to get there.

    I am so Dougie Houser.


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